Not Your Girlfriend, Not Your Mother

作品描繪一段不對等的友誼。
在既非家人、亦非伴侶的關係裡，卻被期待承擔伴侶與母親般的角色。對方習慣在未整理自身情緒前，便將壓力與負面情緒傾倒而出；完成最基本的責任仍需外界鼓勵與提醒。長期累積的情緒勞動，使關係逐漸失衡，付出者清楚知道，這份照顧並不會以同等方式被回應。本曲進一步延伸至性別角色期待的批判，男性往往對女性朋友抱持較高的情緒支持期待，卻未必對男性朋友如此；女性在職場中承擔活動安排與「家務式」雜事，在友誼中承擔傾聽與安慰，在家庭中負責情緒管理與生活規劃。歌曲以直白且強烈的語氣，大聲拒絕無形深植的性別分工與情緒剝削。

Written and produced by Katree

I keep going back and forth between
feeling sorry for you
and thinking you're a pathetic excuse for a human being

You're the cause of my anxiety
Are you gonna explode again?
Like everyone's out to get you?

Yeah
Turns out the problem ain't me
and honestly you don't deserve my time or pity
'cause I'm

Not your girlfriend, not your mother
nor the therapist you refuse to see
Should I clap for the bare minimum
It's not like you'll do the same for me
Not your girlfriend or your mother
Nor the therapist you refuse to see
Should I clap for the bare minimum
It's not like you'll do the same for me

So resent me for your half-assed changes
promise to be better, but you already think you're the best (oh no)
So pack your bags and your toxic masculinity
If you're waiting for an apology from me (Sorry)
But I'm

Not your girlfriend, not your mother
nor the therapist you refuse to see
Should I clap for the bare minimum
It's not like you'll do the same for me
Not your girlfriend or your mother
Nor the therapist you refuse to see
Should I clap for the bare minimum
It's not like you'll do the same for me

我一直在兩種情緒之間來回
一邊替你感到可憐
一邊覺得你是個可悲的人

你是我焦慮的源頭
你又要爆炸了嗎？
又覺得全世界都在針對你？
對
結果發現問題根本不在我
老實說你也不值得
我花時間同情
因為我

不是你女友，也不是你媽
更不是你拒絕去看的心理師
難道該為你最低限度的努力掌聲鼓勵嗎
你又不會對我一樣好
不是你女友，也不是你媽
更不是你拒絕去看的心理師
難道該為你最低限度的努力掌聲鼓勵嗎
你又不會對我一樣好

所以你就繼續怨我吧
你那些敷衍的改變
嘴上說會變好
但你早就覺得自己完美無缺
收拾你的行李
還有你那套有毒的男子氣概
如果你在等我的道歉（抱歉喔）

但我
不是你女友，也不是你媽
更不是你拒絕去看的心理師
難道該為你最低限度的努力掌聲鼓勵嗎
你又不會對我一樣好
不是你女友，也不是你媽
更不是你拒絕去看的心理師
難道該為你最低限度的努力掌聲鼓勵嗎
你又不會對我一樣好